NEW YEAR THOUGHTS

SLAVE OF TECHNOLOGY

LIVING THE DOUBLE LIFE

Fault Discovery

Express the Golden Gift of GRATITUDE

Love yourself

Nowadays people are looking behind to find someone and love them in the course of looking for enjoyment.. Sometimes this process makes them feel disheartened or sad and it makes them feel low.
The only solution for this is to find someone who will like and love you back for the entire life and be satisfied with your activities.
This type of person is very easy to be found and that person can be found if you look deep into yourself .

Yes!. You are the person who is with you in your hard and tough times. You are the one who will find happiness and joy in every activity of yours..
If you find yourself and start loving  yourself then for sure you can't be any distress situation in your life.
Just find out the hidden potential that's lying deep within yourself and start to explore it and love it with your full heart.
You will definitely find a great hidden person lying within you who will guide for your entire life without any confusions..

TAKE A DEEP VIEW WITHIN YOURSELF AND FIND THE HIDDEN POTENTIALS WITHIN YOU..

A single turn can change your life

We always want to live a high end extra ordinary life with high tech facilities. But we mostly do not go till the end to get for it.

The problem lies in our way of going ahead. We just follow a fixed routine, a fixed Plan and expect things to get extra ordinarily good in our lifes..

We need to go and take that extra turn in our lifes that is to do which has high risk following our inner voice..

We are Just one turn away from the life we are desiring. We have to take that unconfirmed step in the road of our life, and just wait for miracles to turn up in our lifes..

So find out that new turn and find out new roads of success in the map of your life.

Success is achieved by taking risky but confirmed steps in our life.

PERSPECTIVE OF PROBLEMS

Few days back I was travelling by express train for one of my friend’s marriage, and as the station was approaching, I decided to stand by the door to have a look at the graceful nature outside. As I was relishing the beauty of the nature a thought suddenly struck my mind.

Seeing the huge mountains and small stones laying by the train, I thought that the problems that we face are just like small stones that are near the tracks. And we are so disturbed by them that we have various issues, troubles, depression, etc. But our goals are like the huge mountains which we have to achieve. And if we are disturbed by small stones thinking them to be much disturbance to us we cannot achieve high goals.

Any problem that we face in our life is nothing but a small fraction of the success we are going to achieve in the future. So if we are afraid of them then we cannot go ahead. We have to take the problems as a small particle that is just on our way and we have to overcome them so that we can achieve the huge mountain of success in our life.

So never be disturbed by problems, they are there to make you strong and to make the taste of your success worth it.

ACCEPT THE PROBLEMS AS A SMALL STONE TO ACHIEVE THE MOUNTAIN OF SUCCESS

CHANGED RETURN

We always are on the track of getting returns.. 

If we do some good or beneficial work for someone we are surely expecting the person to do the same to us in any manner in future,

But this binds us to get something in return ...

And if they don't respond with a grateful heart we feel sorry for ourselves, that why did we do good to them, as they don't value it..

But to look at, no doubt its their fault, but on the other hand its also ours because we are expecting from them that they will reciprocate.. 

Indeed we are stuck in this dilemma of expecting good from to whom we did good to...

So if we just do good to others realizing it as we doing our duty to them and not expecting the same treatment from them then we can be more relaxed and will be less disappointed...

So indeed leaving our duty and not expecting back from others is a secret mantra for a peaceful and meaningful life ahead..

 

LIVE A LIFE WITHOUT EXPECTING, AND YOU WILL SEE WONDERS...

Destruction is the new start of development 
#newstart #adic

SLAVE OF TECHNOLOGY

In this today's world of modernization, our work efficiency has increased multi fold times no doubt, but also we have become to habitual to the same technology that it's practically impossible for us to spend few hours without it.
We need technology - gadgets even for small things like for  brushing our teeth we use electric brush,  for holding on to our mobiles we use mobile holder and many more.
It's a sad state that we use technology so much so that we have become a slave to it. 
It's not we using technology, rather technology using us..
This continuous addictive using of Technology can slowly make our life turn into indolence and inertia. 
One well learned man said "Gadgets are good as a servant and bad as a master"
They are good if we have control over them, if we use it limited then it can benefit us but if we just leave lose then it can just ruin out our life’s. 
If we master technology it can bring out marvelous things..on the other hand if we let technology master us that's nothing but way to disaster in the long run.
Even children and youth are so glued to their mobiles it's like it their best friend. Children nowadays are not going out for playing but are stuck in their tabs and mobiles. This is a sad bitter reality. 
If we just post a limit on the over coming usage of Technology we can make our life's blossoms, we can have better relationships with each other around us.
The blame is upon us, not the technology as it's just a vehicle for fulfillment of our needs but we are accepting this vehicle as the sole controller of ourselves.
So to cease ourselves from being a slave to this modern devil, we must draw out a limit line which has to be followed by everyone of us to be uncontrollable by this modern Devils. 

Master the technology and not let the technology master you.

DON’T EXPECT FROM YOUR EXPECTATIONS

We as general humans do good to others in some way and in return we expect the same reaction or same good doing from the opposite person. But sometimes or more often we don’t get the same conditioning from the person and that makes us feel why he/she did that to me.

 The reason behind that is that we are EXPECTING something in return from that person for our favor. Due to which we are always in waiting mode that he/she will return me back with some favor or service. Due to this intention or mode we are very desperate that the time will soon come and we will be in the takers end. But unfortunately that time does not come and we are stricken with inner pain and grief that we have done so much but what the end result. We may also feel that Is it for this moment that I have favored that person so long? And that feeling just crushes a person’s heart and self esteem to pieces, which we not only affect him but also it affects the general people around him as he may not be in a position to help around others in any point of life.

This situation can be solved if you just don’t EXPECT OTHERS TO DO FOR YOU.

But that’s not that simple. It takes lots of determination to follow the right way. One of the best way to cure that is to do the favor you are continuing to do but just add a small paraphrase to it that is DUTY. You may do that favor to him/her and simultaneously think that I am doing it as a duty, God has just chosen me to do it for him. Just by thinking in the back of the mind that you are just facilitating it to happen and you are just acting as a medium for it. If you do in the way of duty, you will remain calm even after the person does not reciprocate because you know that you just did good to that person because you had to, and that you are not behind the result that he/she may give to you.

So just don’t be caught in the web of expectations of others and live your own life.

TO EXPECT FROM OTHERS IS JUST LIKE CAUGHT BY IN THE NET LAID BY YOU

Express the golden gift of GRATITUDE

Happiness achieved through small service of others brings about gratitude within oneself.
Feeling gratitude for smallest n insignificant help by others brings about happiness in oneself.
To have gratitude for others is nothing but expressing love for others. Always feeling a mode of gratitude brings about humility among oneself. It can make even worse enemies as best friends
But having such surpassing quality can take years of practice and sincerity 
It can easily be achieved by --Remembering good works by others- Just remember even the smallest n insignificant help or work that others have done to you, and how it has helped you in your life. By just remembrance of such activities one can feel extreme gratitude for others within oneself.
It can even destroy tons of mistakes done by others If we sincerely feel gratitude for them within our hearts.
Feeling gratitude can not only make others happy but also raise your standard of service for the world..
Gratitude can make the seed of love and relation to grow within your heart for the service of the world and betterment of oneself.

Feeling GRATITUDE makes your hearts soft and fertile for the tree of relations to grow.