SLAVE OF TECHNOLOGY

In this today's world of modernization, our work efficiency has increased multi fold times no doubt, but also we have become to habitual to the same technology that it's practically impossible for us to spend few hours without it.
We need technology - gadgets even for small things like for  brushing our teeth we use electric brush,  for holding on to our mobiles we use mobile holder and many more.
It's a sad state that we use technology so much so that we have become a slave to it. 
It's not we using technology, rather technology using us..
This continuous addictive using of Technology can slowly make our life turn into indolence and inertia. 
One well learned man said "Gadgets are good as a servant and bad as a master"
They are good if we have control over them, if we use it limited then it can benefit us but if we just leave lose then it can just ruin out our life’s. 
If we master technology it can bring out marvelous things..on the other hand if we let technology master us that's nothing but way to disaster in the long run.
Even children and youth are so glued to their mobiles it's like it their best friend. Children nowadays are not going out for playing but are stuck in their tabs and mobiles. This is a sad bitter reality. 
If we just post a limit on the over coming usage of Technology we can make our life's blossoms, we can have better relationships with each other around us.
The blame is upon us, not the technology as it's just a vehicle for fulfillment of our needs but we are accepting this vehicle as the sole controller of ourselves.
So to cease ourselves from being a slave to this modern devil, we must draw out a limit line which has to be followed by everyone of us to be uncontrollable by this modern Devils. 

Master the technology and not let the technology master you.

DON’T EXPECT FROM YOUR EXPECTATIONS

We as general humans do good to others in some way and in return we expect the same reaction or same good doing from the opposite person. But sometimes or more often we don’t get the same conditioning from the person and that makes us feel why he/she did that to me.

 The reason behind that is that we are EXPECTING something in return from that person for our favor. Due to which we are always in waiting mode that he/she will return me back with some favor or service. Due to this intention or mode we are very desperate that the time will soon come and we will be in the takers end. But unfortunately that time does not come and we are stricken with inner pain and grief that we have done so much but what the end result. We may also feel that Is it for this moment that I have favored that person so long? And that feeling just crushes a person’s heart and self esteem to pieces, which we not only affect him but also it affects the general people around him as he may not be in a position to help around others in any point of life.

This situation can be solved if you just don’t EXPECT OTHERS TO DO FOR YOU.

But that’s not that simple. It takes lots of determination to follow the right way. One of the best way to cure that is to do the favor you are continuing to do but just add a small paraphrase to it that is DUTY. You may do that favor to him/her and simultaneously think that I am doing it as a duty, God has just chosen me to do it for him. Just by thinking in the back of the mind that you are just facilitating it to happen and you are just acting as a medium for it. If you do in the way of duty, you will remain calm even after the person does not reciprocate because you know that you just did good to that person because you had to, and that you are not behind the result that he/she may give to you.

So just don’t be caught in the web of expectations of others and live your own life.

TO EXPECT FROM OTHERS IS JUST LIKE CAUGHT BY IN THE NET LAID BY YOU