DON’T EXPECT FROM YOUR EXPECTATIONS

We as general humans do good to others in some way and in return we expect the same reaction or same good doing from the opposite person. But sometimes or more often we don’t get the same conditioning from the person and that makes us feel why he/she did that to me.

 The reason behind that is that we are EXPECTING something in return from that person for our favor. Due to which we are always in waiting mode that he/she will return me back with some favor or service. Due to this intention or mode we are very desperate that the time will soon come and we will be in the takers end. But unfortunately that time does not come and we are stricken with inner pain and grief that we have done so much but what the end result. We may also feel that Is it for this moment that I have favored that person so long? And that feeling just crushes a person’s heart and self esteem to pieces, which we not only affect him but also it affects the general people around him as he may not be in a position to help around others in any point of life.

This situation can be solved if you just don’t EXPECT OTHERS TO DO FOR YOU.

But that’s not that simple. It takes lots of determination to follow the right way. One of the best way to cure that is to do the favor you are continuing to do but just add a small paraphrase to it that is DUTY. You may do that favor to him/her and simultaneously think that I am doing it as a duty, God has just chosen me to do it for him. Just by thinking in the back of the mind that you are just facilitating it to happen and you are just acting as a medium for it. If you do in the way of duty, you will remain calm even after the person does not reciprocate because you know that you just did good to that person because you had to, and that you are not behind the result that he/she may give to you.

So just don’t be caught in the web of expectations of others and live your own life.

TO EXPECT FROM OTHERS IS JUST LIKE CAUGHT BY IN THE NET LAID BY YOU